Miriam Goldin is one of the many keys to HomeAid’s success. A retired teacher from Fairfax County; a new grandmother; and a busy member of Inclusion Consultants, where she teaches teenagers and adults effective communication and social skills, she somehow manages to find time each year to help plan and coordinate HomeAid’s fundraising Gala. Philanthropy is important to Miriam’s family; when their three kids were young, she and her husband emphasized the importance of community service. They continue to be involved with several organizations, and her husband travels to the Philippines each year, where he volunteers as a dentist. Read more to find out what motivates Miriam to donate a tremendous amount of her time to HomeAid, and what keeps her coming back each year.

Q: What is your role with HomeAid Northern Virginia, and how did you become involved?
A: Several years ago, my friend Patti Brownstein – HomeAid board member and Gala & Auction Committee Member – asked me to help at a HomeAid Gala, and I was intrigued. I enjoyed it so much that when I was asked to chair the Gala Committee the following year, I happily accepted.
Q: How many HomeAid Galas have you planned?
A: This is my seventh year as chair. The theme for this year’s Gala is TOMORROW IS TODAY, which will be held at the Lansdowne Resort – a new venue for us. We more or less have outgrown every hotel that we’ve been in, and Lansdowne gives it a little more panache. The ballroom is exquisite.
The Gala takes a tremendous amount of planning, and I am very lucky to have an incredible group of volunteers and staff who have worked with me for the past seven years – I can’t do this on my own! A lot of people work very hard on this and give so much time and effort to planning it.
As soon as the Gala is over, we go into planning mode for the following year. We have our congratulatory dinner in December, and in January, I host a thank you dinner and kick-off meeting in my home, where we talk about the next year’s Gala. We discuss the new theme, fresh ideas, and generally have a wonderfully productive evening. We meet monthly after that, and, starting in September, we meet every other week. In addition, there are small focus groups and meetings with hotel and audio-visual (AV) staff. I negotiated a two-year contract with Lansdowne this time, and we will meet with hotel staff at least six times. This year we also separated the AV, because we like to do it a little differently. We’re having two different rehearsals with a new and creative AV company.
I would compare our meetings to an orchestra; I might be the conductor, but I cannot possibly do what the other talented players do to make the performance a hit. It really takes a year to pull together, and I couldn’t put this event together without the help of the following individuals:
- Patty Mao Booker – registration
- Kim Calavas – creator of our raffle boxes and entertainment, with her husband Chris
- Beth Cline – registration
- Jennifer Keesling – procurement
- Board and Committee members – Patti Brownstein, John Darvish, Scott Shelton, Jason McDonough, Debbie Rosenstein, and current President, Jerry Berman
- HomeAid Northern Virginia staff – Kristyn Burr (Executive Director), and Cilda Pretorius (Operations and Events)
Q: What have been the biggest challenges in planning the event each year?
A: Trying to keep the event relevant, interesting, and productive. The attendance has grown every year, and I am delighted to say that we are extremely close to being sold out for this year’s event, with an expected attendance of 500. We are excited about this remarkable achievement.
Q: What is your favorite thing about planning the Gala, and what is it about HomeAid’s mission that keeps you so dedicated to the organization?
A: I love to see how it all comes together – the charity part of it and the organizing part of it. I don’t like to hyper-manage; I just let people do their job because they’re masters at what they do. We’re a troupe of players, and we’re friends, which makes it fun. Friendships have grown out of this event, and we have a good time.
Also, it makes me feel better than just giving money. My husband and I donate to many charities, but working on this Gala gives me an opportunity to do more than write a check. I am awed by the generosity and quality of work that the builders bring to the HomeAid projects. They create beautiful homes and bring a sense of pride and accomplishment to the people who live in them. HomeAid brings dignity and hope to people who need it. Volunteering for HomeAid is very important to me. |